Friday, February 27, 2009

Fact: Women Take Rejection Harder Than (Most) Men

 
 Truth.com. This post is gonna sound like I'm salty as hell. But I am, so s'whatever. It is what it is and I wanna be as real with ya'll as possible (no faking the fizzle). I know what I want and I don't like playing games. I've come to the point in my life where I'm too old for this redundant High School peanut butter and jelly bullshit. I mean, what's the point of pussyfooting around an issue? You either want something or you don't, right? It's a wrap for indecisive dudes this year; I don't have the time nor the energy to chase ya'll anymore.

 I know for a fact I'm trippin' with this one though, folks. I like dude. I've expressed this to him, thoroughly. Aigh, so it's been established, we gonna get it poppin' like we 'sposed to do, right? I wouldn't even mind just smashing to keep it 100 with ya'll because to tell ya'll the truth (God as my witness), I ain't had my back blown out in a minute. I don't have sex with anybody I don't feel I have a connection with and since dude fits the bill/my criteria I thought this was the perfect opportunity. Plus he's local and I'd prefer not to make a habit out of travelling for dick.
"We ignore the ones who adore us, adore the ones who ignore us, hurt the ones who love us, and love those who hurt us."
 This doesn't necessarily correlate with my post verbatim, but regardless, the gist of the quote is fairly accurate with the situation. Women are so ass-backwards. Blue's Clues Logic and shit. Obviously no bias considering I am the proud owner of a vagina but I'm keeping it real as hell right now. Why the fuck do we want what's not good for us or what we don't think we can attain as easily as it's willing to come to us? Matter fact, I'm gonna opt to go more in depth with this in another entry. So fuck it.

In Conclusion...

 If shit's not at least mutual I can't even fuck with it. K.I.M status. It's cool to pursue something or someone you're interested in but you have to draw a line in the sand somewhere. Putting yourself out there time and time again to someone who is unresponsive is not the move. This persistence bullshit ain't really me and I have too many great good options to start sweatin' somebody who doesn't know what they want. At the end of the day I might not always (necessarily) get what I want but it saves time; and that's not a resource I have in abundance these days (despite the frequent blog updates, naturally. This shit my therapy ya'll). I ain't addressing this shit again neither. Once is more than enough.

(On a sidenote, I guess karma really is a bitch. I lost)

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